I was at work a couple of weeks ago when a teacher stopped by my office to let me know there were donuts in the break room. It was good timing because I was hungry.
(Disclaimer: I'm not eating food indoors with other people at the moment, but I decided it was low risk to go grab a donut and eat it outside real quick.)
I went down to the break room and saw several boxes of a variety of delicious, decadent donuts. I was surprised because I was expecting glazed donuts, maybe chocolate iced at most. These donuts were fancier than your usual box from the grocery store. I surveyed the situation and decided on a cake donut with chocolate icing topped with pecans. Then I read the sign on the table: "You 'donut' have to ask; Baby Smith is due in March."
And you know what my first thought was? Honestly?
"Oh, that's a good way to do that."
That was my first thought. My first thought was so practical. I thought, well, that's a good way to let everyone at work know at once. Cute even. Considering we're at an elementary school. And it really was a good selection of donuts.
I thought for a second about how much an announcement like that would have caught me off guard, hurt me, and ruined my day just a couple of years ago but now it didn't. I'm glad for that.
I don't even eat donuts all that often, but I definitely enjoyed that one.
That's definetely sign of healing. I am so glad for you!
ReplyDeleteI was surprised by my reaction, very pleasantly surprised.
DeleteI have to admit, that was rather clever. And hey, a doughnut is a doughnut, right? (and a free one at that!) lol
ReplyDeleteYeah, I thought it was clever too. It might've bugged me in the past, but it doesn't now.
DeleteI'm a sucker for a good pun. I feel like, all things considered, that's not a terrible way to announce a pregnancy at work. I'm glad it didn't throw you for a loop and I'm glad you got a delicious, fancy donut! (I'm only ever excited in the faculty lounge when there's food provided and someone thinks to put gluten free things out, on a separate table... I think I almost cried the first time that happened!) Also, I'm with you. No communal indoor food, not yet. Hooray for yummy donuts with no stabbiness!
ReplyDeleteOh man, that donut was soo good. Especially since it didn't cause me any sadness for myself.
DeleteI'm so glad it didn't hurt. And yes, a good way to announce it - without too much fanfare, giving each person time to process it (even if that wasn't intended), and avoiding group gatherings in a pandemic.
ReplyDeleteAlso - Yum. Donuts.
I hoped that the announcement didn't bother anyone, but it's highly likely that it did. You're right. Even though I doubt it was intended, that was a good way to give each person time and space to process the news.
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