If you would have told me ten years ago that I would enjoy making baby quilts, I would not have believed you. Not in a million years. For one, I didn't even quilt back then. And two, there's no way I could have done that. Make something that takes a long time for someone else's baby?? No way.
And now I've made four.
They are cute, fun, and, considering how long a full-sized quilt takes to make, quick and easy.
You just sandwich two yards of fabric with some batting in between and quilt diagonal lines across. Then you attach the binding and sew it down. You're done! No piecing necessary.
And even though it seems to make the new moms nervous, you can just throw these quilts in the washer and dryer. You don't do anything special to clean them. Quilts are meant to be used.
I finished this latest baby quilt last night. I look forward to my Saturday evenings. I've created the habit of watching an old movie while sewing. It's relaxing and I love it. I'll drink a couple of beers, eat some snacks, and stand at my machine or sit in my recliner and sew. What? You weren't expecting a couple of beers to be part of the equation? Hahaha.
This quilt is for my yoga teacher who is due in a month. She has reduced her class schedule immensely. How she is even still teaching I have no idea. Teaching yoga is a gift of service and requires a lot of energy. She is amazing. She even does most of the practice with us still, modifying a lot of the poses of course. And she is not a 25 year old. She will be an older mom, but not a first time mom. This will be her second.
I've witnessed her entire pregnancy. I knew her before she announced her pregnancy, but I suspected she was pregnant. I think I have some sort of pregnancy radar. I miss a lot of things in life, but I can usually guess when a woman is pregnant.
It wasn't hard for me. I don't want to be pregnant anymore. I divorced my husband, who I chose to be the father of my children. I changed careers from working with kids to working with older and elderly adults. I moved away from the city, my friends, and my family to pursue a different kind of life. It's been over ten years since I stopped trying to conceive; my life is radically different.
I am happy for my friend, and I enjoyed making a baby quilt for her. I'm excited to give it to her, especially since she has no idea I've been making it.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again: miracles happen every day. I did not get my miracle baby in this lifetime, but my recovery and healing from all I've been through is definitely miraculous.



What a thoughtful present! The quilt is beautiful. It is also proof of a deep friendship and of the journey you have taken to accept your new life :-) Sending hugs!
ReplyDeleteThat's lovely! Lea said it perfectly about your friendship and your healing. Also, life is too short to worry about perfect corners. ;-)
ReplyDeleteSo beautiful! Let the wild rumpus begin!
ReplyDeleteI relate to not being bothered as much because I no longer want to be pregnant, I no longer want the life that didn't work out because I'm happy in mine, even with the grief. That's healing! I love the idea of you watching an old movie, quilting up a storm, drinking your beers. I keep imagining a tobacco pipe too for some reason, ha! Love it. Hooray for healing, and beautiful soft baby quilts.
I love seeing photos of your quilting projects! :)
ReplyDeleteOur nephew's wife was thanking me for the clothes I've bought for their two little boys, and I kept trying to tell her, "i LOVE shopping for them!" What I didn't add was that it wasn't that long ago that I could barely walk by a children's clothing shop without wanting to cry. The fact that I actually have fun going in and buying things is sometimes hard for me to believe...! I will admit I do sometimes get pangs when I see really cute dresses for little girls (there are lots of those in the stores right now). But it doesn't happen as often these days, and I'm grateful for that.